Been tweaking that resume for the tenth time this month… and still hearing crickets?
If you’re an engineering leader stuck in a job search that feels like it’s going nowhere, I’ve got news for you — you’re not broken, and your career isn’t over. But we need to talk about what’s really going on.
Your next role won’t come from perfect formatting. It’ll come from real conversations.
That’s why I created The C.H.A.T. Method™️ — a simple 4-step framework to help you start the right career conversations without sounding needy or awkward.
It’s easy to assume “Maybe my resume just isn’t good enough”, but the truth is often more surprising: your resume isn’t the real problem. There’s a hidden barrier that has little to do with font choices or fancy formatting. The real obstacles lurk beneath the surface, in your approach and mindset.
Fixing a typo on your CV won’t matter if you don’t fix these deeper issues. Here’s what’s really holding you back and how to fix it.
#1 – Relying on the Online Application Hamster Wheel (Instead of Networking)
If your job hunt strategy consists of firing off dozens of online applications and crossing your fingers, you might be running in the wrong direction.
Only a small percentage of jobs, especially at higher levels, ever come from cold online applications. Most are filled through networking and referrals. Meanwhile, a huge percentage of resumes never even reach a real person because they get filtered out by applicant tracking systems.
That’s why sending out resumes en masse can feel like shouting into a void. It’s not that your resume is terrible, it’s that nobody’s seeing it.
The hidden barrier here is a lack of human connection. It feels safer to sit behind a screen, but the uncomfortable truth is that relationships move careers.
Trade some of that “spray and pray” resume time for networking time. Reconnect with former colleagues. Reach out to that manager at your dream company. Yes, it takes courage to put yourself out there, but every coffee chat or LinkedIn message is an investment in momentum.
#2 – Not Communicating Your Business Impact (Talking Tech Instead of Value)
Another hidden culprit is not what you did, but how you talk about it.
Many engineers talk like engineers, not leaders, when presenting themselves. They focus on technical duties, tools, and jargon instead of highlighting the outcomes and impact that matter to hiring managers.
Companies don’t hire you just for coding in Python or managing projects; they hire you for the results you can deliver. Don’t just say you “implemented Feature Y using Technology Z”. Say you “led the implementation of Feature Y, resulting in a 15% increase in customer retention.”
Translate your work into business results such as speed, savings, revenue, and customer satisfaction. This is how you speak the language of decision-makers.
The hidden barrier here isn’t your resume format, it’s a communication gap. Close it by branding yourself around the value you create, not just the tasks you complete.
#3 – Lacking Clarity in Your Career Direction (No “North Star”)
Sometimes the biggest roadblock isn’t external at all, it’s internal.
You might be sending mixed signals simply because you’re not crystal clear on what you really want. Many engineering leaders haven’t taken the time to define their own “North Star,” the role, environment, and goals that truly excite them, and it shows.
If you aren’t sure what your dream job looks like (beyond a generic title or salary bump), how can you convince an employer you’re the right fit?
Without clarity, you end up applying for anything and everything, tweaking your resume endlessly to chase every shiny job posting. This “I’ll take anything” approach often backfires because you dilute your story and come across as directionless.
Do the inner work: define what success really means to you in this next chapter. Then make sure your resume and LinkedIn tell a cohesive story about who you are and where you’re headed. When you present a clear, focused narrative, you become memorable.
#4 – Letting Fear and Self-Doubt Sabotage Your Search
Even with a great strategy, network, and clarity, there’s one more barrier that can quietly stall your job search: your own fear and doubt.
Job hunting can be humbling. Rejections sting, new opportunities intimidate, and it’s easy to start second-guessing your worth.
If you’re secretly thinking “Am I really good enough for this?” or “What if I fail?”, it shows. You might hesitate to reach out to a former colleague, stumble through interviews, or downplay your accomplishments to avoid “bragging.”
Here’s the truth: showcasing your value isn’t bragging, it’s educating others on how you can help them.
Confidence can be built. Courage can be practiced. Start by acknowledging your wins and strengths. Get feedback. Work with a mentor or coach who can help you see what’s possible.
When you believe in the value you bring, others are far more likely to believe it too.
Let me leave you with this…
Your resume is just one tool, and it was never meant to carry the whole weight of your job search.
If you’ve been polishing your resume to perfection yet getting nowhere, it’s time to look beyond the document. Build genuine connections. Sharpen how you communicate your impact. Define your direction. Step into the courage it takes to put yourself out there.
Your next opportunity won’t be won by a perfectly formatted resume. It’ll be won by you showing up as a confident, value-driven leader — and starting the right conversations.
That’s exactly why I created The C.H.A.T. Method™ — a simple 4-step framework to help you open doors and grow your network without sounding needy or awkward.
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